'Vixen Icon,'
by Buffie Carruth,
better known as "Buffie the Body," starts out
with the author's description of life in high school when her
booty was, well, less plenteous.
"I often got depressed because I wasn't thick,'' Carruth writes.
"All my life through school, I've noticed that girls had to be
cute and pretty, or you had to be fine as hell with some ass and
hips to be an 'in' girl. Even if you didn't have big breasts, it
was cool as long as you had some ass. I didn't have any breasts,
no a--, and no hips and that s--- made me feel so insecure. I
looked like a damn boy!''
Not anymore.
In her memoir, Carruth details
how a visit to a mysterious "Dr. X," 25 miles from her home,
gave her the magic formula to help her gain weight and a
voluptuous backside, earning her the name Buffie the Body. She
explains that Dr. X gave her a list of foods, including peanut
butter and pasta, along with a prescription for an unnamed
liquid appetite stimulant. While she was hopeful, she says, she
was not convinced it would work. She filled the prescription and
followed the doctor's orders.
"Believe it or not, in less than two weeks, I had already
started noticing a weight gain!'' she writes. "My a--, hips and
thighs were the first parts of my body to receive this blessing.
I noticed a little weight gain in my stomach area, too, but not
enough to get alarmed by. It was like my a-- and thighs just
took off and left the rest of my body. My body started changing
so fast that it seemed like it happened overnight. Everyone was
noticing it too -- and I mean
everybody!"
Carruth burst onto the scene several years ago with an
appearance in rapper Tony Yayo's video, 'So Seductive,' becoming
a household name among hip-hop entertainers and fans. As she
puts it, she came a long way from "fighting, dating drug
dealers, stealing, stripping and... tricking." She used to carry
a baseball bat in the trunk of her car in case trouble called.
Carruth is one of seven children, including a younger sister who
died of ovarian cancer and to whom the book is dedicated. She
grew up in Athens, Ga., and her real name
is Buffie, based on a
character from her mom's favorite television show, 'Family
Affair.'
The story is written in a fairly pedestrian fashion. It also has
some inconsistencies. Carruth, for example, writes about other
women hating on her for competitive reasons, but it appears she
has beef with Steffans. "I'm not a fan of Karrine's, but I don't
feel any particular way about her. She made those choices, and
she lived that life. I don't think it affected me directly.
America as a whole has never looked at video girls in a positive
light. It's not Karrine's fault. It's all our faults, as a
whole. ...Yes, I do agree that Karrine played her part in making
it worse, especially by claiming she fell victim to the vicious
Hollywood scene and then capitalizing off of her story, but the
damage is done, and I don't even know how the image of a video
girl will ever be repaired.''
Still, unlike the
Hottentot Venus,
who in the 1800s was forced to gyrate her ample buttocks as part
of an exhibition around Britain, Carruth has made a choice.
"Yes, I admit that my a-- was my main reason behind my success,
but everyone can't expect it to happen as easily for them as it
was for me,'' she writes. "I was one in a million at the time.
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This marks the return of one of the most popular VBLAZIN cover
models of all time, Ms Kaki West. She's been on the VBLAZIN HOT
100 list for 2 years running. And this year she actually hit
number 1 on that list. If you don't think being a VBLAZIN cover
girl doesn't help you get noticed. You'll believe after seeing
the BIG moves she's been making. We couldn't be more proud in
having helped in some way. And we're excited to have her back ,
so she can let you guys in on what she's been up to since her
last visit to the VBLAZIN couch. This video shows the behind the
scenes of an official VBLAZIN MAGAZINE video shoot with with
VBLAZIN contributing Photographer Justin Price, and Renowned
makeup artist Rosetta Garcia.
We had our casting call in Philly back on May 16th.
And this one stood out to us. We loved her interview, and how she
made it fun, and had us laughing. So we had to let you guys see what
we saw. But don't worry Ashley aint the only one that made an
impression on us at that event. So look for more sexiness coming to
you from that event in up coming issues of VBLAZIN. Cause we
couldn't just choose one. But for now please welcome Ashley to the
VB couch!
Awww..It's an honor to be chosen out of so many models
that were there. Thank you! VB!
Where did you grow up?
I
grew up in four different places. I lived in DC until I was 4yrs
old; then, I was suppose to be on vacation in Ivory Coast in
west Africa but, I ended up living there for 7yrs. I moved back to
the U.S and lived in New Orleans for a couple of months and then
moved with my father in Virginia; I stayed there for five years, and
moved back to New Orleans.
What's your favorite gadget?
My
favorite gadgets(because I have two, can't leave without both of
them) would be my I-touch and my phone, I do not go anywhere without
those two. My I-Touch provides me with my internet, weather,
picture, YouTube, world clock (just in case I'm not in the U.S),
music, videos and it goes on, then my phone has my contacts, they
are all important, because I do not remember anyone's number, my
phone is all I have so understand why I can't lose it; then I got
unlimited texting...got to love it!....lol
How'd you get into modeling?
I
was not always interested in modeling; i got into it because a lot
of people where telling me that i had a nice figure, and that i
needed to try modeling. I finally thought about it when I started
college, then in August of 08 I met with my agent mike Styles and
the decision was made.
So what have you learned NOT to do since you've been in the biz?
Since I
started I was told not to let people know that i was new in this
business, because they tend to judge my work abilities and little do
they know I have a lot to bring to the table.
Where do you want to go with your
modeling?
I
want go has far as possible in this modeling business. I want it to
be a step for me to be able to do other things such as acting,
dancing, and since I can't sing....lol, producing would be good,
then own my own modeling agency.
If you could have any job in the world other than modeling what
would it be?
If I
could do any job besides modeling, it would be a plastic surgery ;
plus, I would be a plastic surgeon anyways because that's what I'm
in college for....lol
Where do you see yourself in 10 years?
In
10yrs I see myself as the plastic surgeon I always wanted to be,
achieved my goals in my modeling and acting career, and starting my
modeling agency.
I
love dancing, I've been dancing since I was in my mother's womb; a
lot of people remember me has that little girl that used to cry and
dance, I have rhythm and I'm a very good dancer.....lol
Would you ever spice things up by dancing for your man?
I
would definitely spice things up with my man by dancing, I love to
be the center of attention when I'm dancing, and to know that i look
good doing it why not!!....lol
What's the wildest thing you've ever done?
The
wildest thing I ever done was when i was 14yrs old, i took my
brother's car (i had no license) drove and ran into a gas pump with
my cousin in the car. When the cops came i begged them not to tell
my brother because I knew I would've got my ass beat, but they told
them anyways. later that afternoon, you would think I learned my
lesson but I toke my aunt's car when she wasn't home, drove it got
lost and was about an hour away from New Orleans somewhere on the
way to baton rouge, I finally found my way picked up my friend, went
downtown New Orleans scratch the car while parking, then immediately
bought spray paint and spray painted the scratch, came home parked
her car and stood outside until she came home and told her someone
vandalized her car...lol...I got away with it!!
What's the wildest ting you ever saw?
The
wildest thing i ever saw was when i went to McDonalds with my little
niece and my sister and these boys were fighting, then one of then
got up went to his car and grabbed a gun and started shooting.....i
was scared out of my life!!!
So, does looks mean a lot to you when you're looking at the opposite
sex?
Looks matter a little bit when I'm looking at the opposite sex, i
have to be physically attracted to him.
What type of man do you like?
I
like when a man is taller than me, clean cut or clean dreads,
respectful, funny, a legal job, meaning he pays taxes and strong
looking....not someone that looks like i can break him...lol....basically,
i got to feel protected...lol
Are you the romantic laid back type or are you a wild child?
I'm
a little bit of both, I'm romantic, and a little wild.....i got to
keep it mellow
Turn ons:
My
turn ons are intelligence, respect, and his swag.
Turn offs:
My turn offs are him bragging about how much he makes, him talking
to much, and wack ass lines to get my interest.
So I hear you're a big music lover. What do you like to listen to?
I
love different types of music, I listen to reggae dancehall,
rap, African music, hip-hop music, R&B, salsa, French music, Soca,
Zouk, Indian music, I mean its goes on because i like everything I
can dance to with a good beat.
What's in your CD player now?
I
have a lot of rap and R&B music right now in my I-Touch, i need to
upgrade it soon
What did you listen to growing up?
Growing up i listened to a lot of salsa, African, bounce, gogo, rap,
dancehall, and Soca music
Is there anything that really pisses you off?
I
get pissed off a lot when someone disrespect me, i dislike loud
mouth girls that hate most of the time, when someone gets smart, i
feel the need to put their ass in check.
What makes you the most happy?
What
makes me the most happy is food, my boyfriend, my mother, my
father, and my goddess Remi hair.
What do you do for fun when you're not modeling?
When
I'm not modeling I go skating, bowling, traveling, and learning new
dance moves.
Are you a designer label type of girl?
I'm
a designer type chick....that's just the way i was raised.
If I gave you the floor to do shout outs, promotions, or whatever.
Who would make that list?
I would
make a shout out to all the photographers I've work with such as
Terry Lewis, DJ, Tony Watson who shot this feature and my
manager Mike Styles. Since I've started I've been getting nothin but
love from them and learned so much from them...so I thank them. I
would thank god, my parents for supporting me in this business, and
tell people to look out for me and keep supporting me...oh and
Twitter me on
twitter.com/1ashleybelle...lol
Kaki West: Making
Great career moves
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Kaki is the daughter of the former Assistant
Secretary of Defense under Ronald Reagan, which perhaps explains her
preference for powerful, confident men. "I'm attracted to
alpha-males," says the self-proclaimed smart sex symbol. "I like a
man who knows what he wants and goes after it with 100 percent
determination." But Kaki is not easily intimidated. "I learned early
on the power of my own sexuality. To have both beauty and brains is
a lethal combination." And in her own words she sent us a thank you
letter that we'd like to share with our readers.
I
have great faith and admiration in you and in your creative
brilliance. As far as Vblazin is concerned if there is anything I
can do or help contribute to your magazine I will.
In 2008 I had the
honor of appearing in Vblazin magazine with a cover and feature
article.I was named Vblazin model of the Year along with
having the Holiday Issue Cover for 2008. Since the release of both
of my covers I have had incredible career opportunities come my way.
As a result of Vblazin, I was given a great platform to promote my
career as a model and SAG actress.
I was ESPN’s ESPY
Awards trophy Model for 2008. My Vblazin cover caught the eye of a
casting director at ESPN in NYC; which gave me an acting role in
ESPN’s “Bronx is Burning” TV mini-series. Furthermore, I have been
featured as the cover model on numerous magazines such as:
Girls,Girls,Girls, FG and Physique. In the month
of June of 2009 I will be featured as Playboy Cybergirl.
The circulation
and viewing of my Vblazin cover on the Internet and on my personal
website (www.kakiwest.com)
had created an extraordinary buzz. Furthermore, I have been playing
host at numerous high-end, trendy clubs. One of the more prestigious
experiences was hosting the grand opening of an exclusive club in
Dubai, UAE.
I have graced the
covers of numerous worldwide print magazines. But, I firmly believe
that webzines are the wave of the future. Many print magazines have
hit rock bottom however, webzines such as VBlazin are thriving in
having over 3 million viewers worldwide! The Internet is a powerful
place for a model and Vblazin is “The place to be seen or
discovered”. I am a perfect example of what Vblazin can do for one’s
career. I encourage any model to join the Vblazin family. I am so
proud and honored to be affiliated with Vblazin.
I thank Vic and
Vblazin for enhancing my career.
Miss Popular...
After her issue came out earlier
this year. Shennekia has went on to do BIG things. She's hosted our
VBLAZIN Casting call in Philly on May 16th. And she has our most
popular cover this year thus far. We at VB solute you Shennekia!
Keep doing BIG things baby!!!
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So we'd been talking
to miss Hood for a while now. But we figured we were being selfish
to try to keep her to ourselves. So we brought her in and sat her
pretty behind on the VB couch. So welcome to the spot Miss Hood!
Thanks
for having me!
So, where
did you grow up?
I grew up in
Camden NJ. If you've ever been there you'd be surprised that I don't
have 3 baby daddy's, collect unemployment and welfare.
It's really rough to make it out the hood, if you don't have parents
to expose you to other things in the world.
How'd you get
into modeling?
I actually did some
modeling when i was15-16, my hair stylist got me into hair shows and
modeling for local ads. But I lost my motivation after being scammed
and took some years off. I got "back in the game" 3 years ago after
my now bf motivated me to go after what I really want.
So what have
you learned NOT to do since you've been in the biz?
I've learned
not to give people your ass to kiss because you never know who they
know or how that person can help you in the long run. No this isn't
from personal experience but I've seen this happen before.
Where do you
want to go with your modeling?
I want to go to
the top... I want the fame, money, and success. I want to get to the
point where when people hear my name they know exactly who i am
If you could
have any job in the world other than modeling what would it be?
I clothing and
jewelry designer
Where do you
see yourself in 10 years?
I see myself
still modeling but, also acting, with a husband and kids and my own
fashion design company.
Do you have a
website?
Yes & No. I'm
still working on it but it will be up by the end of next month.
OhYesSheModels.Com so be on the look out
Are you a good
dancer?
I used to be a
great dancer. I was trained in Jazz, Hip hop, tap and ballet for
many years. Lol, if you mean in the clubbing scene... of course!
You'll find me in the club two steppin but I can definitely pop lock
and drop it with the best.
Would you ever
spice things up by dancing for your man?
Yes, but I'm a
goof ball so I normally do silly dances for him... it doesn't really
spice anything up though
What's the
wildest thing you've ever done?
Oh lawd let's
see, honestly I've never done anything that i would consider wild.
What's the
wildest ting you ever saw?
The wildest
thing I ever saw was two people having sex in a bathroom stall in
high school. Yes the stall door was open and no they didn't stop
when the realize my friend and I were staying there
I hear you're a
goofball. Tell us a little about that.
I'm a complete
goofball, I say random things and i definitely do goofy things...
like karaoke at 3am, do the running man in the middle of the dance
floor, get the urge to skip (and do it), bought myself a hula hoop,
and asked for a Skip It and a Lite Bright for Christmas last year
(and yes i got both... please hate)
We all can
laugh at our self. So, can you tell us about your most embarrassing
moment?
I was at
practice for a fashion show and I fell face first fown 4-5 steps. On
top of that my heel got stuck in the step and I couldn't move... I
laughed so hard. I was just telling everyone my shoes were new and
out of control and that.
Where did
you grow up?
I grew up in
Camden NJ. If you've ever been there you'd be surprised that I don't
have 3 baby daddy's, collect unemployment and welfare.
It's really rough to make it out the hood, if you don't have parents
to expose you to other things in the world.
How'd you get
into modeling?
I actually did some
modeling when I was15-16, my hair stylist got me into hair shows and
modeling for local ads. But I lost my motivation after being scammed
and took some years off. I got "back in the game" 3 years ago after
my now bf motivated me to go after what I really want.
So what have
you learned NOT to do since you've been in the biz?
I've learned
not to give people your ass to kiss because you never know who they
know or how that person can help you in the long run. No this isn't
from personal experience but I've seen this happen before.
Where do you
want to go with your modeling?
I want to go to
the top... I want the fame, money, and success. I want to get to the
point where when people hear my name they know exactly who i am
If you could
have any job in the world other than modeling what would it be?
I clothing and
jewelry designer
Where do you
see yourself in 10 years?
I see myself
still modeling but, also acting, with a husband and kids and my own
fashion design company.
Do you have a
website?
Yes & No. I'm
still working on it but it will be up by the end of next month.
OhYesSheModels.Com so be on the look out
Are you a good
dancer?
I used to be a
great dancer. I was trained in Jazz, Hip hop, tap and ballet for
many years. Lol, if you mean in the clubbing scene... of course!
You'll find me in the club two steppin but I can definitely pop lock
and drop it with the best.
Would you ever
spice things up by dancing for your man?
Yes, but I'm a
goof ball so I normally do silly dances for him... it doesn't really
spice anything up though.
What's the
wildest thing you've ever done?
Oh lawd lets
see, honestly I've never done anything that i would consider wild.
What's the
wildest ting you ever saw?
The wildest
thing I ever saw was two people having sex in a bathroom stall in
high school. Yes the stall door was open and no they didn't stop
when the realize my friend and I were staying there
I hear you're a
goofball. Tell us a little about that.
I'm a complete
goofball, I say random things and I definitely do goofy things...
like karaoke at 3am, do the running man in the middle of the dance
floor, get the urge to skip (and do it), bought myself a hula hoop,
and asked for a Skip It and a Lite Bright for Christmas last year
(and yes I got both... please hate)
We all can
laugh at our self. So, can you tell us about your most embarrassing
moment?
I was at
practice for a fashion show and I fell face first fown 4-5 steps. On
top of that my heel got stuck in the step and I couldn't move... I
laughed so hard. I was just telling everyone my shoes were new and
out of control and that I was probably going to fall and bam
So, does looks
mean a lot to you when you're looking at the opposite sex?
Yes! And anyone
that says different is a damn liar! Looks are what makes you
interested in a person. All of that "ohhh he's so smart and goal
driven" ish comes after the looks... If I cant tolerate or get pass
your face, I'm not trying to get to know you on a personal level.
That's not shallow, that's just being real.
From talking to
you before hand, I can't believe you're shy. But I hear you can be
at times. When are you?
I get nervous
when I'm around people I really like and don't know too well. I'm so
silly, random and blunt that I get shy in fear of saying something
completely off topic and stupid.
What type of
man do you like?
I don't have a
"type" i just require that you be sexy and be about your business.
Are you the
romantic laid back type or are you a wild child?
Both, It all
depends on my mood.
Turn ons:
confidence but not cockiness and a hard worker, with a heavy dose of
sexy
Turn offs: A
guy with no goals, no ambition, with a baby mama
So I hear
you're a big music lover. What do you like to listen to?
What's in your
CD player now? I don't have a CD player that I use, this it the
iPhone age.
What did you
listen to growing up?
That all
depends on my age, I grew up listening to Earth, Wind & Fire, SWV,
Envogue, TLC, Nirvana, Korn Incubus ... I listen to many genres of
music
What's your
favorite gadget?
Right now, my
iPhone. If you don't have one go get one!
Is there
anything that really pisses you off?
People that
make fun of others because they know they're to afraid to defend
themselves. I'm definitely to hop in the middle of a situation and
dare someone to test me.
What makes you
the most happy?
Making other
people happy
What do you do
for fun when you're not modeling?
Play video
games, party with my friends, drink, draw and color a few pages of a
good coloring book lol
Are you a
designer label type of girl?
NOT AT ALL!
Labels don't matter to me, I look fly in a $50 dollar outfit and i
look fly in a $800 dollar outfit. Its not the label that makes you
look good, its all about how you wear what you wear.
If I gave you
the floor to do shout outs, promotions, or whatever. Who would make
that list?
Definitely My
mom, TheFlyBoyz .Com, Devwade Photography, First Choice Couture,
Ja'Dore Magazine and Unique's (from vh1's For the Love of RayJ)
younger sister for personal reasons ;0)
Come thru
whenever you're ready baby gurl. You know you're always welcome
here. You're the queen. And the world is your kingdom. RULE IT!!
Can I barrow a cup
of sugar?
Fun facts: I love to work out
and I'm very flexible. If I could I would be a personal trainer. But
if you put me on a treadmill or track, You and me will have to
fight. Because I hate running with a passion. My hips are a size 41
and I'm very healthy in the thighs, so that is a lot of weight I
have to carry back there. LOL
Where did you grow up? Back and forth from The peach state Georgia
and The sunshine state Florida, Mostly in North Florida. But as
soon as I graduate from college, I'm moving to either South Florida,
Georgia, or St Lou.
What's your favorite gadget? My phone, but I always seem to lose it
the most.
How'd
you get into modeling? Well, I started modeling on my college campus
for Faces Modeling Troupe. I love the lights, cameras, clothes and
the intensiveness. Although it was a campus modeling troupe, I
wanted more. So I branched out to get more exposure and projects.
So what have you learned NOT to do since you've been in the biz?
Me personally growing up in life, I found out that some time no one
will ever take care of you the way only you can, So don’t depend on
anyone else for your needs. If you want it done right the first
time. Do it your damn self. That goes for personal needs, income,
and materials belongings.
Where do you want to go with your modeling? I want to do some of
everything. That it girl who, just does everything. And gets the job
done.
I would not mind following up to some of the greats Tyra, Iman,
Melyssa, and Esther.
I love fashion in every way so editorial, runway, glamour, swim
suit. print work, fashion commercial.
If you could have any job in the world other than modeling what
would it be? Well I'm in college for Computer engineering, so I want
to be the one who produces that new mac computer software G1, Iphone,.
The new phone application such as a games and navigation that
everyone spends 2.99 for each month. LOL. Either way I'm going to
be paid.
Where do you see yourself in 10 years?
Do you have a website? No not yet
Are you a good dancer? How dare you asked this question, Duh!! I
was the captain of my hip hop dance team in high school, and I'm
still in a dance team on college campus. You can find me and my
gurls
Would you ever spice things up by dancing for your man? He knows I'm
down for anything. But don’t think too hard on it.
What's the wildest thing you've ever done? Only he knows.
What's the wildest thing you ever saw? Believe me I'm form a college
town, I seen some of it all.
So, does looks mean a lot to you when you're looking at the opposite
sex? No, I love getting to know someone's personality, if they
are creative, open minded and compassionate. I'm a Libra so I can
balance with pretty much anything but disrespectiveness.
What
type of man do you like?
Are you the romantic laid back type or are you a wild child? Both I
love being romantic you know wine and dine, lubby, dubby. Yet
sometimes you just have to get ugly and messy...lol
Turn ons: Good surprises, a good movie, moving conversation.
Turn offs: Lairs, fakers, so called Flossers/ballers
So I hear you're a big music lover. What do you like to listen to?
Lots of rap, mostly Wayne, Jeezy, Rick Ross, Rocko, Pharrel, Brisco
and Lupe Fiasco. I might dibble in some R and B like, Beyonce,
Monica, Aaliyah.
What's in your CD player now? Nothing really, Not a big cd
collector anymore, but I Ipod had some of everything.
What did you listen to growing up? I am a country girl that grow up
in a family with a lot of Older people, so Earth wind and Fire,
Micheal Jackson of course, Chaka khan, Prince, Marvin Gaye, Barry
White, BB King, Temptations Otis Redding, and James Brown.
Is there anything that really pisses you off? Like I said before in
the questions about turn offs, Liars. Do not waste your time, save
the breathe.
What makes you the most happy? Being alive, being with friends and
family who care.
What do you do for fun when you're not modeling? Well I'm also in
school so, shopping, texting, parting you know the college stuff.
Did u really think I was about to say studying. It said fun things
not stressful things.
Are you a designer label type of girl? No, I can make anything work
and look good, no matter what/who you are. When I worked for this
clothing store in my city, Which house brand name and non name
brand. People constantly asked me to help them find an attire young,
old, male or female.
If I gave you the floor to do shout outs, promotions, or whatever.
Who would make that list? Tony Watson the
photographer, my mother for giving these brains, frame and
extravagant looks, my man for being by my side, close family and
friends .
6 Secret Ways to Turn
Her On
By: Sarah Miller
Rest assured, every woman wants to be seduced. We
just don't like guys who go for the seduction jugular: the
champagne, the Barry White, the walk on the beach. A man who has
tried one of these, or, God forbid, all of them at once, is a man
who knows well the face of humiliation and failure.
No, the key to
turning her on for sex is
not to advertise how much you want her, but, rather, to quietly make
clear why she should want you. When it comes to sex, in other words,
you don't need a billboard—you need sneaky subliminal messages.
They used to use tricks like these to sell more Coke at the movies.
Now you can use them to get more women.
Sex Positions With A
Twist
Traditional
sex positions tend to get a
bad rap these days, and understandably so; they have a tendency to
get old rather quickly. You may be surprised, however, to learn that
these classic sex positions can be turned into something hot and
altogether fantastic with just a few minor adjustments. Our sex
positions with a twist are easy to do, and they don’t require the
skill of an acrobat. And, perhaps most importantly, our sex
positions with a twist deliver -- for both you and your woman. Try
one of the following sex positions with a twist and you’ll see what
we mean.
Cowgirl Lap Dance
The original cowgirl position is fabulous all on
its own, but when you add a chair to the mix, it becomes one of our
hottest sex positions with twist. Grab a kitchen chair and sit
yourself down. Pull your woman close, and help her slide onto your
lap. With her feet touching the floor, she’ll be able to rotate her
hips and tease your erection with her
clitoris, making this a
very sexy precursor to intercourse. You’ll also have a birds’-eye
view of her breasts. When she’s ready for intercourse, this position
will give her better control than the traditional cowgirl position
does, which means the ride is going to be twice as wild and twice as
good.
Doggy Leg Lift
If you’re looking to add a little extra something
to doggie style, this sex position with a twist will definitely make
your woman holler. Bend her over on the bed, spread her legs and
lift one of her thighs. This will allow for the deepest penetration
possible; simply twist your body toward hers and drape her thigh
across your hip while you thrust. Your free hand can either slip
into her hair for that gentle tug so many women crave, or you can
use it to stimulate her clitoris. Either way, she’ll be hollering
for more.
Missionary With Pillows
The good old-fashioned
missionary position can
lead to mind-blowing sex with the simple addition of a pillow. This
sex position with a twist is incredibly easy and virtually
guarantees orgasm; possibly even for both of you at the same time.
Lay your woman down on her back and slide a pillow under her
backside. Spread her thighs apart and place her feet flat against
the mattress. Penetration from this angle will be deeper than ever
before, and the unavoidable clitoral stimulation will make her
orgasm deliciously intense.
Spoon Split
This sex position with a twist is a big favorite
with many women because it feels highly intimate and very naughty at
the same time. From the traditional spooning position, take her top
leg and drape it across your own. This will force her thighs into a
fairly widespread position, which can make even the shyest of women
feel like a sexual nymph. You’ll be able to thrust deeply, while
having very easy access to her clitoris. Don’t be surprised to see
her thrashing about like a madwomen; sex in this position will make
her feel extremely saucy.
Reverse Cowgirl Squat
This is one sex position with a twist that often
leads to wild and rambunctious sex. Get on your knees while facing
the bed’s headboard, and rest your bum on your heels. Have your
woman squat over your lap while grasping the headboard; she’s going
to use it for leverage as she lowers herself onto your erection.
Grip the curve of her waist as she rides you -- this will help to
balance her during sex. Gentle hair tugging and mild spankings are
also generally appreciated, and easily accomplished, in this
position.
Standing Rhythm
Most men have
fantasized about bending a
woman over the sofa and having their wicked way with her. Believe it
or not, most women have fantasized about their man doing the same
thing. This sex position with a twist makes the most of that fantasy
and then some. Bend your woman over the sofa (the kitchen table
works quite well too) spread her legs apart. Deep thrusting is very
easy from this position, and you’ll especially rock her world if you
rotate your hips during penetration. Add a little spanking into the
mix and you’ll have a very content woman on your hands when it’s
over.
69 + 1
Oral sex in the 69 position
is something most people enjoy -- but there’s so much more fun to be
had when you add fingers and toys into the mix. Instead of laying in
the traditional position, lay side to side, as this will make it
easier to manipulate the
toys. Start this sex
position with a twist the old-fashioned way; tongue her clitoris
until she’s wet and begging for penetration. Once she’s ready,
maintain the oral stimulation while slipping a finger inside of her.
Or, if you really want to drive her mad with lust, replace your
fingers with a small vibrator; multiple orgasms are just around the
corner.